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Getting started
It's the platform that should have existed years ago. Rules with evidence, tasks with deadlines, a daily diary, limits you can both see, chastity tracking, budget oversight, chat — all in one private place that actually understands how D/s works.
Yes, free. One dynamic, 10 rules, photo, document, and text evidence, chat, limits, timeline — yours forever. No trial that expires. Premium unlocks video, audio, budgets, chastity, and more when you're ready.
Two ways. Share your unique partner code — text, in person, written on a napkin. Or invite them by email. Either way, your email is never visible to your partner inside the app.
Not at all. Your display name can be anything — a scene name, a title, initials, whatever feels right. We'll never ask for your legal name.
Dynamics & roles
Free gives you one. Premium gives you three. Pro gives you unlimited. Each dynamic is completely separate — nobody in one can see anything from another.
One submissive and one or more Dom(me)s. We designed around this structure so every feature works cleanly without ambiguity about who's doing what.
Absolutely. Your role is set per dynamic, not per account. Dom(me) in one, submissive in another — your call.
Of course. Either role can create a dynamic and invite their partner.
You lose access immediately. If you're the last one out, everything is permanently deleted — diary, rules, tasks, files, all of it. Nothing stays behind.
Rules, evidence & tasks
Dom(me)s create, edit, and manage rules. Submissives see them in their diary and submit evidence — that's the rhythm.
Photo, video, audio, document, or text. The Dom(me) chooses when creating the rule. Video and audio are Premium features.
Five kinds. Evidence tasks — upload proof. Lines tasks — type a phrase repeatedly, and yes, mistakes are counted. Timer tasks — hold focus for a set duration, and interruptions are tracked. Game tasks — beat Dino or Flap mini-games to clear the target score. Quiz tasks — multiple choice, true/false, and free text questions, auto-graded where possible.
Very. They're never publicly accessible. Every view needs a temporary link that expires. Evidence photos, videos, audio, and documents are automatically deleted after 14 days (free) or 60 days (paid). Files you upload through the shared files feature persist until you delete them or the dynamic ends.
Diary
Each day gets its own page. Submissives write reflections and submit evidence. Dom(me)s review it all, leave comments, give a thumbs up, or ask for it again. It becomes the record of your dynamic.
Free gives you the last 7 days. Premium and Pro give you everything — scroll all the way back to day one.
Chastity
Dom(me)s lock and unlock with a swipe. A live timer counts every second. You can leave a note they'll see the whole time. Full session history and lifetime stats build as you go.
No. Only Dom(me)s hold the key — digitally speaking.
It's a Premium feature. The free tier has plenty to start with, but chastity is part of the upgrade.
Limits
Both of you classify activities independently — hard limit, soft limit, curious, or neutral. You can see each other's, but you can only ever change your own. If anything updates, the other person knows immediately.
Yes — and they should. Limits aren't a submissive-only thing. It's a two-way negotiation tool.
Budget & chat
Dom(me)s set monthly spending categories with limits. Submissives log each purchase. Both see spend vs budget in real time. Receipts can be required — the Dom(me) decides per category.
Private messaging within your dynamic. Messages arrive instantly. Push notification if they're away. It's there whenever you need it.
The app
A native mobile app is in development. In the meantime, Bonded works great in your phone's browser — just visit bonded.partners and log in.
Face ID, Touch ID, and PIN lock are coming with the mobile app. On the web, your account is protected by your device's own screen lock and browser security.
In development. For now, the web app works well on Android browsers — give it a try.
Privacy
Never. Even if they invited you by email, your email address is never visible to them inside the app. You can also connect via partner code instead if you prefer.
Yes. Account deletion permanently removes your profile, all your data, every file, your entire history. It's irreversible and that's the point.
Yes — and not in the generic way most apps mean it. Every message, diary entry, rule, task, limit classification, and piece of evidence is encrypted with a key unique to your dynamic. That key is stored in a separate vault, isolated from the data it protects. Our own team can't read your content. When you delete your dynamic, the key is destroyed and the data becomes permanently unreadable.
No. Your messages, diary entries, rules, tasks, and limit classifications are encrypted with a key that only your dynamic has access to. There's no admin panel that displays your content, no support tool that can read your messages. This is enforced by the architecture, not just by policy.
When the last person leaves a dynamic, the encryption key is destroyed first. Then all data is deleted — diary entries, rules, tasks, files, everything. Even if the data somehow survived deletion, it would be permanently unreadable without the key. It's gone in every meaningful sense.
Pricing
No. If either of you has a paid plan, both of you get the features. You're in this together — the pricing reflects that.
Any time. Downgrades take effect at the end of your billing period. No penalties.
Within 7 days of your first payment, just ask. We'll sort it out.
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