A dynamic without structure is a dynamic waiting to drift.
Rules get forgotten. Evidence goes untracked. The Dom(me) wonders if their submissive is keeping up. The submissive wonders what's expected of them today. Expectations go unspoken. Trust erodes — not from malice, but from messiness.
You've tried spreadsheets. Shared docs. Habit trackers built for morning routines, not power exchange. None of them understand the roles, the protocols, or the emotional weight of what you're building together.
Bonded was built for this.
Rules & Evidence
Clear expectations. Undeniable proof.
Dom(me)s set rules with clear descriptions and optional evidence requirements — photo, video, or text. Choose the frequency: daily, weekly, or monthly. Your submissive sees exactly what's expected and when it's due. No room for confusion.
When evidence arrives, Bonded tracks whether it was early, on time, or late. Acknowledge it with a word of praise. Leave a comment. Or request resubmission if it doesn't meet your standards. The submissive always knows where they stand.
- ✓Photo, video, and text evidence types
- ✓Daily, weekly, or monthly schedules
- ✓Timeliness tracking — early, on time, or late
- ✓Acknowledge, comment, or request resubmission
- ✓Overdue evidence surfaced immediately
Rules & evidence tracking
Diary
Reflections, evidence, and devotion — daily.
The diary is the heart of the submissive's day. Write reflections. Submit evidence for rules and tasks. See everything that's due. It's accountability and introspection in one place.
Dom(me)s review every entry — reflections, evidence, task completions. Leave comments that matter. Request resubmission when standards aren't met. Red dots flag unseen content on both sides so nothing slips through the cracks.
- ✓Daily reflections and free-text entries
- ✓Evidence submission alongside rule duties
- ✓Dom(me) comments and reactions on every entry
- ✓Unseen indicators per date — nothing gets missed
- ✓Full date navigation with activity markers
Diary view
Tasks
Assign. Enforce. Review.
Tasks are one-off assignments with deadlines — specific instructions, exercises, and discipline that go beyond standing rules.
Evidence tasks require your submissive to upload proof — a photo, video, or written response.
Lines make them type a phrase you choose, over and over, character by character. No shortcuts. Mistakes reset the line. You see exactly how long it took and how many errors they made.
Timers set a countdown — hold a position, complete an exercise, practise stillness. Pausing or leaving is tracked as an interruption.
Every task produces a detailed report for you to review.
- ✓Evidence, Lines, and Timer task types
- ✓Automatic completion with detailed reports
- ✓No shortcuts — paste prevention, error and interruption tracking
- ✓Comment or request resubmission on any task
- ✓Tasks appear alongside duties in the diary
Task types
Budget
Every pound, dollar, and cent — accounted for.
Set monthly spending categories with limits — groceries, entertainment, tribute, whatever your dynamic requires. Require receipts where you want proof. Your submissive logs every purchase, and you both see the budget in real time.
Plan budgets up to three months ahead — your submissive only sees the current and past months. Forward planning stays private until you're ready. Copy last month's categories with one click.
- ✓Monthly categories with spending limits
- ✓Optional receipt requirements per category
- ✓Real-time tracking — spent, remaining, over budget
- ✓Private forward planning for Dom(me)s
- ✓19 currencies supported
Budget tracking
Wishlist
Make your desires known. Let devotion do the rest.
Dom(me)s add items to a shared wishlist — with optional descriptions, links, and prices. Your submissive sees exactly what you want and can mark items as bought when they've fulfilled a wish.
Track what's been purchased, who bought it, and what's still outstanding. It's tribute and gifting made visible — no guesswork, no forgotten hints, just clear desire and clear action.
- ✓Items with optional description, link, and price
- ✓Submissives mark items as bought
- ✓Track who bought what and when
- ✓Outstanding and purchased views
- ✓Links to exactly what you want — no guessing
Wishlist
Limits
Boundaries that evolve with you.
Every person in the dynamic shares their limits on a single table — over 120 activities across 20 categories, from impact play to photography. Set each as a hard limit, soft limit, or something you're curious about. You can only edit your own column.
This isn't a checklist you fill out once and forget. Limits are always accessible, always current, and changes are flagged instantly. It's ongoing negotiation made visible — so consent is never assumed, always informed.
- ✓120+ activities across 20 categories
- ✓Hard limit, soft limit, and curious
- ✓Shared table — everyone visible, only your own editable
- ✓Changes flagged so nothing is missed
- ✓Add custom entries for anything not listed
Limits negotiation table
Live Chat
Stay connected while you manage.
A floating chat lives on every page. Message your partner while reviewing diary entries, adjusting rules, or setting tasks — without leaving what you're doing. Messages arrive instantly.
When your partner makes a change anywhere in the dynamic, you're notified with the option to refresh. You're never blindsided by updates, and you never lose work in progress. Manage the dynamic together, in real time.
Chat & real-time notifications
- ✓Floating chat on every page
- ✓Instant message delivery
- ✓See when your partner is online
- ✓Live change notifications across the dynamic
- ✓Refresh on your terms — never lose in-progress work
Chastity
Lock it down. Track every second.
Dom(me)s lock and unlock with a single tap. A live countdown tracks every second of the session — days, hours, minutes. Add a note when you lock to remind them why they're waiting.
Both parties see the current status at a glance. Complete session history with durations. Stats that build over time — total sessions, total time, averages, and your longest lock. Every lock and unlock is logged in the timeline.
- ✓One-tap lock and unlock for Dom(me)s
- ✓Live countdown timer visible to both roles
- ✓Dom(me) notes on each session
- ✓Full session history with durations
- ✓Lifetime statistics — total, average, longest
Chastity tracking
Shared Files
Contracts, photos, guides — all in one place.
Create folders and upload anything your dynamic needs — agreements, reference material, photos, protocols. Anyone can upload. Dom(me)s control who sees what and who can delete.
A separate Evidence folder automatically collects every diary attachment and budget receipt, browsable in one list. Evidence doesn't count towards your storage and auto-deletes on schedule.
Shared file storage
- ✓100 MB shared storage per dynamic
- ✓Folders with Dom(me)-controlled visibility
- ✓Auto-generated Evidence folder
- ✓Anyone uploads — only Dom(me)s delete
- ✓Secure downloads with temporary links
Pro Tools
Cross-dynamic power tools for professionals.
Pro subscribers get a dedicated toolkit that works across all their dynamics — designed for Dom(me)s and experienced players managing multiple relationships simultaneously.
Notepad— private notes about everyone you're in dynamics with. Observations, plans, things to revisit. Only you can see them.
Multi Tasker — assign the same task to submissives across multiple dynamics in one go. Select which dynamics, configure the task, and deploy.
Shared Wishlist — maintain one wishlist that surfaces in all your dynamics. Any submissive in any dynamic can fulfil items.
Pro Chat— a unified inbox for every dynamic's chat. Switch between conversations without navigating in and out of each dynamic.
- ✓Private cross-dynamic notepad
- ✓Bulk task assignment across dynamics
- ✓Shared wishlist visible to all subs
- ✓Unified chat inbox — every dynamic in one view
Pro Tools
Timeline
A complete record. No gaps, no disputes.
Every rule change, evidence submission, task completion, diary entry, budget spend, and reaction is logged chronologically. Both parties share the same view of what happened and when.
Red dot indicators appear across every tab whenever there's something new. They clear when you've seen it. No chasing, no asking “did you see that?” — you both always know.
Timeline view
iOS App
Your dynamic in your pocket.
Bonded is available as a native iOS app. Submit evidence with your camera. Get push notifications when your Dom(me) assigns a task or your submissive submits evidence. Check chastity status at a glance. Chat in real time — all from your phone.
The app syncs with the web in real time. Everything you do on one appears instantly on the other. Your account works across both — just sign in with your email.
- ✓Native iOS app — fast, secure, always with you
- ✓Push notifications for tasks, evidence, chat, and more
- ✓Camera access for photo and video evidence
- ✓Granular notification controls — push and email
- ✓FaceID / TouchID biometric lock
- ✓Real-time sync with the web app
What happens in your dynamic stays in your dynamic.
We never share email addresses between partners. You connect using anonymous codes. Display names can be anything — we never ask for your real name.
All data is encrypted in storage and in transit. Files live in private vaults with temporary access links. Evidence auto-deletes on schedule. And when the last person leaves a dynamic, every trace is permanently destroyed — entries, files, rules, the lot.
Delete your account and everything goes with it. No archives. No backups you can't reach. Gone.
One subscription. Your whole dynamic benefits.
Most platforms charge per person. We don't. If anyone in your dynamic subscribes, the features unlock for everyone. Your submissive never needs their own plan.
Free gets you one dynamic with 10 rules, photo and text evidence, and 7 days of diary history. Premium at $9.99/month unlocks video evidence, budgets, chastity tracking, lines and timer tasks, unlimited rules, unlimited history, and 1 GB storage. Pro at $29.99/month adds unlimited dynamics, a private notepad, bulk task assignment, shared wishlists, and a unified chat inbox — built for professional Dom(me)s.